So me and this guy have been talking for about 4 months now, daily.
Were both currently in grade twelve and only started taking this year, as I was in his class for the first time in my life. Were going to prom together. I like him, I just don’t know if he likes me back.
- We’ve hung out about 3 times on our own. Twice, having his best friend their, the last one, it was just me and him. Each time, there was no contact. We are flirty with each other (like when we were playing lazer tag, we’d just hit each other, or with mini golf, we’d both move each others balls away to make the other lose. but nothing. I initiated this, hoping we’d get some wear. He usually initiates the hang outs though. He did pay more attention to me than his friend.
-He talks to me ALL THE TIME. He inititates 80-90% of the conversations. online. (Were not in the same class anymore so i never see him at school)
-If I look directly at him, he looks away.
- Last night, we were at a dance. Obviously both drunk. We were together the WHOLE night. Finnaly wheeled too. (im uncertain as to who initiated this) I was very friendly, and we held hands for a bit too (i started that) he didnt let go. Walked me out. It looked like we were dating. We were together the whole night, twe were both wearing baseball hats, and we switched. In fact, he liked mine so much, today he went out to go get a hat exactly like it, different color. Same brand, but specificly the same image on it. I also had a glowstick last night, i gave it to him when i left, he kept it. We hung out today, and nothing. not even a high five -_-
- I joked about saying that i was dating this guy. all he said was lol (obviously a joke gone wrong)
- Liek i said were going to prom together. He asked me through the phone instead of face to face. everytime he wanted to do it face to face, something ”came up” or i was always ”wth my friends”. One of his friends told me that he did like me and was scarred that if he asked me to prom face to face his emotions would show, and that he wanted more than friends. (this was in march)
Anyways, i’m just confused because I don’t know if he likes me. There have been signs that he does, and some that he doesnt. He’s mentioned his ex once or twice, but i dont ask about it. I think they dated 2 years ago. he’s not one to have many girlfrends.
He also did tell me that he has a huge fear of rejection. He’s not shy, but i think he is shy when it comes to the possibility of him being rejected.
I havent told him that i liked him directly, but I think i have dropped a couple signs. LIke being flirty, facebook statuses, nor have i dtried to pull a move sober…. anyways, im very confused. if anyone could give me tips, or their point of view that would be great! And no, I am not asking him out.
05 May 2012 in golf questions 0 Comments